Sunday, October 5, 2008

As time goes by....

So wow it really has been a long time since I updated my blog. Let's see let's recap the past month. Got a haircut, got married, went on my honeymoon, interviewed for a new position, didn't get it, offered a new position, and cleaned my apartment.

That's about it. Exciting....I know! Seriously though, married life is awesome. It's like having a boyfriend for life! Just kidding. Nothing is really different. Well that's not true. David doesn't know how to share a bed. sucks. I often times wake up to find myself holding on for dear life to the edge of the bed. While my beloved lays there spread eagle sleeping peacefully and comfortably. Not a care in the world. Sometimes I just gently move him back to his side of the bed, others I push him so hard I expect to see a David shaped hole in our bedroom wall.

We got a new mattress. It's a sleep number. All I can say is my mattress kicks your mattress' ass! It's so comfy. I don't wake up nearly as much as I used to. I used to do this thing where I would wake up to see what time it was. It was so annoying! It wasn't like I was having nightmares or anything, it was just because several times a night I HAD to know what time it was. Now? I sleep all the way through. I don't even know if Spanky tries to wake me up at 4:30 in the morning to be fed anymore. I'm too busy sleeping. At least until I feel like I am going to land on the floor...

So David and I are just settling in trying to get used to living together. People are so shocked to find out that we never lived together. I didn't realize it was such a foreign concept. For awhile I lived in my own apartment. Let me tell you, you really don't get to know yourself until you are dancing around your apartment in your underwear, singing along with the stereo turned up and drinking a cosmo. Maybe that was just me... Whatever I had fun! The point? I had time to be myself. To figure out me. You don't get that time when you live with someone.

I think the reason David and I rarely fight is because we both had so much time just to ourselves. I wouldn't change the fact that we never lived together for anything. To me if you move in together it number 1.) is bad juju. I know of like two couples who lived together and actually go married. Number 2.) It really is a huge step. One not to be taken lightly. David and I have a lifetime together. I never will get those years back. It worked for David and I. Also I am not a patient person, most people who live together seem to take a million years before they get married. I don't have that kind of time!

So that is pretty much it. What's been going on in my life. Oh, I have discovered Californication. What an awesome show! I'm so in love with it. I now have a crush on David Duchovny. I think it's because he reminds me a little bit of my David. Watch it. It's an awesome show. Do it now. Call your cable company and get Showtime if you don't already have it. It's like an extra $10 a month. It's worth it. Then you have access to Showtime On Demand. You'll be able to watch all of last season and the first two of this one. Do it now. Stop reading my blog. Seriously.